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Women often receive warnings about protecting themselves at the mall and in dark parking lots, etc. This is the first warning I have seen for men. I wanted to pass it on in case you haven’t heard about it. A ‘heads up’ for those men who may be regular customers at Lowe’s, Home Depot, Costco, or even Wal-Mart. This one caught me totally by surprise. Over the last month I became a victim of a clever scam while out shopping.



Simply going out to get supplies has turned out to be quite traumatic. Don’t be naive enough to think it couldn’t happen to you or your friends.

Here’s how the scam works; Two nice looking, college-age girls will come over to your car or truck as you are packing your purchases into your vehicle. They both start wiping your windshield with a rag and Windex, with their breasts almost falling out of their skimpy T-shirts. (It’s impossible not to look). When you thank them and offer them a tip, they say ‘No’ but instead ask for a ride to McDonald’s.

You agree and they climb into the vehicle. On the way, they start undressing. Then one of them starts crawling all over you, while the other one steals your wallet.

I had my wallet stolen Aug. 4th, 9th, 10th, twice on the 15th, again on the 17th, 20th, 24th, and the 29th. Also Sept. 1st, 4th, 8th, twice on the 10th &11th, and very likely again this upcoming weekend.

So tell your friends to be careful. What a horrible way to take advantage of us older men. Warn your friends to be vigilant.

Wal-Mart has wallets on sale for $2.99 each. I found even cheaper ones for $.99 at the Dollar Store and bought them out in three of their stores.

Also, you never get to eat at McDonald’s. I’ve already lost 11 pounds just running back and forth from Lowe’s, to Home Depot, to Wal-Mart.

So please, send this on to all the older men that you know and warn them to be on the lookout for this scam. (The best times are just before lunch and around 4:30 in the afternoon.)
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Where to pick up girls” and “how to pick up girls” are both ironic terms that    guys use.  They are ironic because it’s the not the guys that make the decision to “pick up girls” a certain girl – very rarely is that the case, most of the time, virtually all of the time – it’s the girl that is picking you up. Don’t get me wrong here – you still need to be the one that approaches her – you have to be the man, but you also need to have that “I don’t give a damn” attitude.  You have be an all confident man. What you need to do to get high quality babes is attract them to you.  There are many ways to enhance this ability and the #1 way is confidence, pure, real and totally natural confidence.  Fearless confidence is extremely attractive to women – you can draw them in like a magnet.  And… you can’t fake it.  They know the second you open a door and enter a room. It’s in everything you do – the way you walk, the way you carry yourself and the way you take and make eye contact.  I think it’s funny when I hear about guys that have great pick up lines because there is no such thing.  It has nothing to do with what you say – it has everything to do with how you say it and your tone of voice. I will help any guy that wants the help. I’m extremely good at it and and I don’t mind sharing it.  I can even give you an exercise that will make you much more confident.  For starters – click on the link below called “Where to Pick up girls” and pay close attention.  It’s in the video directly below:









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Where to pick up girls?  Where ever you are, dude!

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Pick Up Lines For Girls


My Pick Up Lines For Girls

I start out with “My” pick up lines for girls because everyone has different perspectives and some guys believe that pick up lines actually work. I’ll give you the very short version of what works in my 4 minute video. But… remember, there is a whole package that goes beyond what I explain in the 4 minute video. If you can get it right off just from listening to my 4 minute spiel – that hats off to you. In most cases – it takes a few months of training – the tone of voice you use is huge, body language is also up there on top. The experts in communication say that less than 8 % of the words you use are what is actually communicated. High in the 30 percentile is your body language and believe it or not tone of voice is in the upper 40 percentile – like above 45% but I don’t remember exactly (I’m thinking 47%).

Lines to pick up girls? Prove me wrong!

Bars can be a tough place to nail the babes in if you don’t know these things. I read self proclaimed experts say that they can give you one magic line that makes them beg you to take them, right there on the spot – lots of luck my friend – try it out and then come back here.


Before I go any further, I should add that no one can guarantee that any plan will get any girl. You need to develop thick skin because you will get shot down while learning the ropes and then even when you are an expert – there will always be that one girl that you just don’t hit off with. So – “pick up lines for girls” – you won’t get many from me. I will teach you how to become more attractive to the ladies, lots more if you are a good student. Girls are the ones that decide who they will or will not go with – you just have to help them decide.

I’m sure most guys think they have a limit – meaning what girls are out of their league. There will be some cases where this true on a one to one basis based on a specific girl. If that scares you – give up now because you will get the word no or even “go away” – maybe more times than you can handle – but if you stick with me, you will get girls you previously only dreamed of. Not every single one you come across – but enough that it will change you life in a super fantastic way. I’ll show you how to create memories that will stay with you till the day you die – even if you lose your mind, you will still likely remember some of the best babes you had. I’m an older guy now and there are plenty of young girls that want nothing to do with a guy my age – yet the funny thing – the really odd thing that you might not believe if you don’t see it first hand, is that – there are hot young babes that I can still do my thing with – this is a stone cold fact that if I needed to – I could prove > np.

Lines to pick up girls – red heads too!


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This is my first article on this site so I’m not sharing everything all at once – it takes a while to draft original content and I like all my stuff to be original. I do copy off of myself from one site to another (that are my sites) because I have several but even then I like to change up the content a little. I will give out my email and my phone number on this new site – just as a test of how many I can handle – but I guarantee – this will be for a limited time. It will be posted under this 4 minute video I made for you in the previous article – right on the cover of WheretoPickUpGirls.com

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How To Pick Up Girls At A Bar

Pick Up Girls At A Bar

The funny part of “how to pick up girls at a bar” is what I explain in everything I teach – it’s all about how you walk through the door. You either have that aura of sex appeal or you don’t. And if you don’t, you can have it – I promise you that I can show you how. I ran the hottest night club in Orange County NY – for 10 years.
I’m a bit older now but all the better. I had dips on the majority of the babes in the place for two reasons – #1. I always had this skill – it’s called an incredibly high opinion of my self or self confidence.
#2 It was my bar and that by itself attracted many babes. But #2 isn’t anything like #1. #1 allowed me to have the same results in any bar – in other states or countries because when I walked into the bars – it was obvious that I had self confidence. Obvious because I did – in the way I walked, in my body language, the way I spoke to anyone. I can make this sound very simple but for most guys – it is not easy. That is why I decided to do the one on one coaching. If I can see your face and how you talk and your body language > I can work on all those things and more with you. I guarantee that you will get babes. It will likely take some practice – more for some of you than for others. If you are a virgin or have had very little success, I can take you leaps and bounds. If you are already pretty good at this – I can still improve your game.

I thought about reducing the price to make it more affordable but then I would have to take on more guys than I care to do and I can do a better job if I’m not way too busy and hurrying up to take on the next client. The price I’m asking for the training I offer is more than fair. Hell, if you decided you really liked a babe and wanted to start a relationship – you could compare one month of training to be less than the cost of one decent dinner for the two of you. If you are really really broke and you want this bad enough – you can build up points in the contest and win 2 full months of training. Right now it’s only a few weeks before the first guy is picked as the winner and man – I’m blown away that none of the contenders are trying very hard. Don’t worry about Jim Morgan on the Leaders page of my site – he is a pseudo name for me. I’m actually Jim Morgan and Tom Gurda – I use the extra name for a bunch of things that do not matter. All you need to know is that Jim Morgan can not win the contest. That means everybody else isn’t trying too hard.

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Sex Appeal – Power Personified”

Attracting Women is reverse engineering the idea that you

Sex Appeal might help produce a red head or two…

You don’t actually pick up girls/ women, instead, the reality is that you have to attract them so they can pick you up. In an effort to make this easy to read and absorb we will still use the term “pick up girls” because that is what our brains think is actually happening. Guys like to think they are in control and calling the shots. This might still be true to some degree if you can attract women – if your mojo is alive and well. This article explains how (and why) anyone can can improve their sex appeal – regardless of how much you currently have or don’t have.

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Sex appeal is the “where” to Pick Up Girls – not a particular place. Just about anywhere is good. You can improve your odds by not wasting your time with more difficult places and situations. Then, armed with some secrets, sometimes the perfect scenario has you finding what you’re looking for in some of the oddest (even most difficult) places. The real trick is more in “how to pick up girls” rather than “where to pick up girls”. Even then it is not so much that you pick up girls, but rather you attract them and then you have the choice of whether or not you are interested in what (who) you attracted.

Sex Appeal is important where?

How would you like to stop by the corner store and find yourself in a situation where you attract a woman – a really hot woman? Or even better – leaving that store with that really hot lady… YOU THINK “WHERE TO PICK UP GIRLS” WHEN YOU SHOULD BE THINKING OF “HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN.” ARMED WITH THE RIGHT MINDSET – IT WILL HAPPEN WHERE YOU ARE AT ANY GIVEN TIME! THIS IS PROBABLY HARD TO BELIEVE FOR MOST GUYS – READ ON BEFORE YOU DECIDE. No Money?

The place where you spend the majority of your time is by far the best place to attract women – assuming there are women there. For starters – the work place – or anywhere that you have repeated exposure to the target – like College, or joining groups that meet regularly and many other regularly visited places is WHERE TO PICK UP GIRLS. Any place where you can gain some regular exposure is where to pick up girls. You’ll need to apply the following tips whether it’s at work, school or some place else.

If you don’t work with any babes – no worries – there are tons of great places to attract women. You can succeed using my methods in the grocery store, at the bank, at gas stations,in a bar and even at church. It’s a good idea to be a part of as many social type gatherings where the same group gets together repeatedly. If you want to attract women bad enough – find some groups to be a part of – this is not absolutely required, it just gives you more opportunity.

Practice (as explained below) and this really works any-freakin-where!

How about her?
How about her?

The worst places for where to pick up girls (or to “attract women”) is at the beach or when they’re in a group of friends. By the way, the words “attract women” are repeated just about ever time there’s a reference to “Where to Pick Up Girls” as a way to get your mind set right. Just sit at a bar and watch the girls in the group shoot down guy after guy (unless they already know them). You study this page and actually implement the frequent practice and you will improve your chances significantly. This approach has proven to work again and again and again. Just get it in your head that it’s all about how to attract women – not so much to “pick up girls”. In most cases, the babes can get guys any time and any where. You want to have some of that power? Follow the guidelines in this document and you will acquire some of that power. How much is completely dependent on you. Women will send you a little signal. The signal is not always something that will jump right out at you. In many cases – it is simply the way they make eye contact, for example – a little sparkle or extended gaze with the right kind of smile. In some cases they might not even smile. Over time, you must learn to read those “signals” because most ladies won’t give you many chances and the signals are rarely repeated if they think you aren’t interested. Or worse, they could think you are a dork for not picking up on what they threw your way.

“It is not simply one secret or tactic – but a formula or combination of things that show you how to attract women / girls / ladies. Mastering this also helps tremendously with most types of employment. The employment part might sound confusing to some folks, but when you master sex appeal, you will be amazed at the doors that open up for you. Even other guys will look up to you when you master this. If your boss is a guy, he will have more respect for you. If your boss is a female – all the better. The benefits of sex appeal go on and on well past anything sexual – it’s power personified in the vast majority of social interactions.” Explains Tom Gurda, a published authority on the subject.

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We will discuss how going out with a pretty girl can give you many pretty girls – something every guy should know and use. HOW TO PICK UP GIRLS AND ATTRACT WOMEN

This works and it works with girls that you might have previously thought to be “out of your league”. They are very much attainable. Let’s jump in and read a bit about “The Face” First tip: right now read this & it’s just the beginning for how to pick up girls (attract women).

Bet You Think You Can't Pick Up Girls This Hot - Right?
Bet You Think You Can’t Pick Up Girls This Hot – Right?

Your facial expression will get you started on how to improve your sex appeal or it can shut you down instantly. If your expression is one of sadness or blank, negative or anything besides what I’m about to share then you’ve lost before you even entered the room. 

How to pick up girls requires some homework. Practice what I’m about to share as much as possible until you get your best at this. Your facial expression needs to be self confident and a little happy. You don’t even have to be smiling but i do recommend a slight smile or a slightly happy face. Depending on your mood and type of day you are having – this may not be apparent unless you are consciously making it happen.

Do this alone and you will learn how to improve your sex appeal and pick up girls – you will improve you chances by many times over. Here’s the short version: practice your attitude in the mirror or with me (I’m willing to help some on skype) and with some practice, you will achieve stuff you can’t currently believe. You start by thinking about something you are good at could be anything- like how well you throw horse shoes, at anything. Make something that you are best at.

You want to learn how to pick up girls and improve your chances significantly? This is not about lines to pick up a girl. It’s about sex appeal and how to attract women/girls. You must be ready at all times and capable with what attracts women. The key work is “attract” because it’s all up her after you present yourself as the cock of the walk.

Just be cool and confident and they will be attractedIT WORKS.

Practice your delivery on my mobile app – there are links below to access the app.


With most women you will be able to tell almost instantly if they would be interested in more – much more.

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The best part is that you can have “it” regardless of your age, your height, your hair line of even if you have no hair –

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Here’s the deal – I am offering some of the most important tips for where to pick up girls and to attracting women that you will find anywhere. There is more coming your way after this. I will show you how even the shy and unattractive guys get beautiful Ladies…. Dating out of your league won’t even cross you mind after you do it for a while. This is a set of proven methods that you will find no where else. These skill set improvements will also be available in mobile app below. If you wish to take it a step futher, the app will show you how to access a Premium Membership.


The most important secrets anyone could ever provide in regard to picking up women is next with other important tips for you!

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If you don’t have a smart phone > no worries, just study the tips on this page over and over again, then sign up for my free members group at the bottom of this page and you will get many more free tips (many will be of very specific situations).  If you are reading this, that means you already bought my book  – it will help significantly. For those of you that want to ensure you are doing all you can for this end goal (hot babes) – then sign up for the advanced training: one on one via Skype with me.  I’m so certain that I will help you in a great way that I back it with a 30 day money back – no reasons required, guaranteed!


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If you can’t afford the monthly training but you really want it – try joining my contest and score a lot of points so you have a good chance at winning.  If you don’t win right way – no worries you will remain a contestant for the future and the points you have acquired will help your odds.  The only time you loss your points is if you win the contest.

If you are ready to start the premium membership with the Skype calls > simply email me at twgurda@comcast.net and put this in the subject area: “TerribleTom’s Skype calls”. I will respond back within 48 hours (usually a lot sooner) unless I’m out of town.  If I’m out of town, you will get an automated email explaining that and when I will return.


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